My Friend Went Back to Her Abusive Ex
A concerned friend writes to Ms. HeartBeat, asking what if anything she should say to a dear friend who rekindled a relationship with an abusive ex who now seems hell bent on controlling her every move.
View Article10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette
Text messaging isn't necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don't follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected...
View ArticleDuring a break up my girl slept with one of my friends… how do I get over it?
A young man is anguished by the mental vision of his ex girlfriend being intimate with a friend she dated during a long break up, and seeks advice on how to move past his jealousy.
View ArticleShopping for Men is Just Like Shopping for Shoes
You'll see them squeezing their toes into the ill fitting shoe they think is so cute, tiptoeing around some strange gait, or walking barefoot with bunions corns and blisters on their feet because they...
View ArticleDisgusting List of Blacks Killed by Police 2014-Present
We must stop wasting time fighting each other and get it together. Mobilize, organize, politicize, and strategize. Start with how to take back your block, your neighborhood, your city, your county, and...
View ArticleRamp Up Your Health with 11 Foods That Boost the Immune System
How can you boost your immune system -- the bodily functions that fight bacteria, viruses and disease -- and give yourself the best opportunity to stay healthy through the winter cold and flu season?...
View ArticleChildhood Sexual Abuse in the Black Community – Survey Results
No one wants to talk about it, but child sexual abuse is the biggest "dirty little secret" in the black community, and has been for generations. This landmark study, with more than 8000 responses, gets...
View ArticleThe Law of Attraction is Stupid
Popular amongst those looking for direction and guidance to a better life, the Law of Attraction made millions for those promoting it. But when the Law of Attraction is used to blame victims for their...
View ArticleThe 13 Types of Men a Woman Should Never Marry
Seeing the “potential” in a man is great – if you're 16. As an adult, what you see is what you get, and no amount of loving support or encouragement will change a man from the man he is to the man...
View ArticleThere is No Such Thing as a Trans Woman
In my mind there is no such thing as a trans woman, there are real women born with vaginas, and there are men born with penises who suffer from an affliction called autogynephilia. Feel free to do your...
View ArticleBlack males really do hate black women, and here’s the proof!
Black men hate black women. Everywhere is proof that black men don't give a shit whether you live or die, and in too many instances will hurt or kill you without hesitation, just because they feel like...
View ArticleChange the Game: The Art of Dressing Well for Women
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Follow the story of how a 20-something young woman learned the art of dressing well for women, and markedly changed both her social and...
View ArticleWhy Women Leave Their Children
Why do some women abandon their children to their parents or the child's father, and show no interest in being a mother ever again? Ms. HeartBeat has the answer.
View ArticleInternet Stalking – When Niqqas Stalk to Insult and Demean
A person who calls himself a man, yet goes from site to site focused on ONE WOMAN HE DOESN'T KNOW is nothing but an internet stalker. He wants your attention but knows you wouldn't give him the time of...
View ArticleWhy Black Women Need to Boycott MAC Cosmetics
It's time for black women to get in those corporate pockets. My suggestions: Return shit you bought from MAC Cosmetics. Get your money back because it made you itch. Get your money back because it...
View ArticleTwenty year old woman child abuses her seven year old sister
Dear Ms. HeartBeat: My stepdaughter (who is 20 about to be 21 years old) pinched my daughter (age 7) under the arm and it has bruised badly. I asked my husband to deal with it, as he is the biological...
View ArticleManipulative Shit Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops
Smooth talk works because black women tend to be very auditory. My hope is that after listening to this series, single black women can quickly identify the sincere guy from the gaming bullshit artist,...
View ArticleWhat it Means When a Single Black Man Says I’m Not Ready
If you want marriage and children, does it make sense to wait around for years and years, investing more time and energy into a man who has already told you that he is not ready for all that and...
View ArticleFixing the Black Community and the Flawed Logic of Black Men
Guest blogger Shadid Mack questions the logic of black men who blame the downfall of the black community on black women and single parent homes - asking black men how they can expect black women to...
View ArticleWhen Black Men Bring Up Butthurt and Bitches from the Past
His goal? To control your behavior towards him, and manipulate you with jealousy into bending over backwards and jumping through hoops to prove that you aren't like those other bitches who hurt him. He...
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